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Authenticity Always with Dr. Falisa Asberry

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Empowerment and Motivation

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Growth Mindset and Habits

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Self-Discovery and Self-Love

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Personal Development

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Relationships and Connection

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Building Resilience

To feel connected, you must first feel safe.

Consider this – authentic connections thrive in an environment of safety. Without a sense of safety, true connection remains elusive. Communication plays a pivotal role in cultivating human connection – it’s the key to unlocking doors in every aspect of life.

Reflecting on my upbringing, where children were expected to be seen but not heard, I often felt silenced and insignificant. These early experiences influenced my communication style, instilling a fear of expressing myself and a belief that my voice didn’t matter. I’m teaching you how to break the cycle and forge strong relationships without the fear…

A Strong Sense of Self: How to Have It and Why You Need It…

Let’s explore the concept of self-esteem and the role it plays in our lives. Building confidence and a strong sense of self starts with self-awareness and self-compassion. In this blog post, Dr. Falisa speaks to young adults facing new challenges, lessons, and chapters in their lives. Dive into practical techniques for increasing that confidence, finding clarity on what YOU want, and how to create a clear path to achieve it. If life is what we make it, we better have the right tools to make it good!

Unwrap the Joy: Your Guide to Stress-Free Holidays with Mindfulness and Self-Care

The holidays often bring a mix of joy and stress. This year, let’s make a shift. Prioritizing self-care and mindfulness can transform the season into a time of serenity. From embracing moments of self-indulgence to practicing mindfulness techniques, discover how to navigate the holiday buzz with ease. This blog post and its resources will help you in finding balance amidst the festivities. Unwrap the joy of the season by prioritizing your well-being!

Soul-Stirring Self-Love: Loving Yourself and Others Authentically

Self-love is a crucial aspect of leading a fulfilling and meaningful life. It is the foundation of all love and enables us to love others in a deep and authentic way. To cultivate self-love, it is essential to first understand ourselves. We must take time to reflect on our values, passions, and dreams, and set healthy boundaries accordingly. This means recognizing our needs and taking care of ourselves first, without feeling guilty about it. Effective communication is also vital to self-love, as it helps us build meaningful connections with others. When we live in our purpose and use our talents to make a positive impact in the world, we feel fulfilled and energized, and we can love ourselves and others with a truly soul-stirring love. In essence, self-love is the key that unlocks the door to a happy and fulfilling life. In this blog post, I’ll be giving you those keys… the rest is up to you!

Challenging The Mirror: What is Really Affecting Your Self-Image

In the carefully composed, digital world we live in, the struggle against negative self-image remains a prevalent and often unspoken battle, especially for women. Recent surveys reveal that a staggering 80% of women find themselves held back by dissatisfaction with their appearance, putting on a heavy coat of low self-esteem. This dissonance is a reflection of myriad influences, from society’s ever-changing beauty standards to the echoes of personal traumas etched into self-perception.

Yet, amid these challenges, the use of self-regulation becomes a hope for those struggling to gain freedom from these narratives and rewrite their story for a brighter future. Rooted in mindfulness, self-trust, and purposeful movement, self-regulation empowers women to steer their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors toward a path of compassion and connection.

As women embrace self-care and self-compassion, they kindle a fire that warms not only themselves but all those they touch. Through these tips on self-regulation, you can step into the radiant truth of your own worthiness, and in doing so, inspire others to find their own path to authenticity and healing.

Turning Negative Self-Talk into Empowering Self-Compassion

Negative self-talk can be a relentless companion, whispering doubts and insecurities in our minds. We all have those moments when our inner critic becomes the loudest voice in the room, undermining our self-esteem and eroding our happiness. But remember, you deserve the same kindness and support you extend to your loved ones. Imagine if someone close to you spoke to themselves the way your inner critic speaks to you – it would be heartbreaking. It’s time to break this cycle and become your own biggest supporter.

Am I Being Authentic?

In a world that often values conformity over individuality, being authentic can be challenging. But true authenticity goes beyond agreeability; it’s about being loyal to yourself and your purpose. Embrace your unique qualities, core values, and beliefs, as they lead to higher self-esteem, greater well-being, and better relationships. Discover the power of authenticity and become your most authentic self, living a life that aligns with your true desires and aspirations.

To feel connected, you must first feel safe.

To feel connected, you must first feel safe.

Consider this – authentic connections thrive in an environment of safety. Without a sense of safety, true connection remains elusive. Communication plays a pivotal role in cultivating human connection – it’s the key to unlocking doors in every aspect of life.

Reflecting on my upbringing, where children were expected to be seen but not heard, I often felt silenced and insignificant. These early experiences influenced my communication style, instilling a fear of expressing myself and a belief that my voice didn’t matter. I’m teaching you how to break the cycle and forge strong relationships without the fear…

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Unveiling Your Authentic Self: A Warm Welcome to the Blog
I'm so glad you're here!I'm Dr. Falisa Asberry, and I'm absolutely thrilled to welcome you to my blog. I want to introduce myself in case we haven't had the chance to say hello yet! I'm a trained psychologist, life coach and strategist, and retired law enforcement...
Soul Searching: The Art of Genuine Connections
In a world of surface-level interactions, cultivating authentic connections has become a precious art.It requires a genuine willingness to understand and be understood, to embrace vulnerability, and to foster deep human connections. In this blog post, we delve into...
From Wasted Potential to Remarkable Growth: Embracing a New Mindset
A growth mindset is the key to unlocking your true potential and creating a life that aligns with your dreams and aspirations.Hey there! We're diving into a topic that I believe is the pinnacle of transforming your life. Let me share the story of how I discovered that...
Fitting In or Standing Out: Identifying Your Core Values
In a world that often pressures us to conform, it's essential to pause and reflect on our core values—the guiding principles that shape our lives.When we honor our authentic values, we unlock a profound sense of purpose, joy, and fulfillment in every aspect of our...
Subtle Self-Sabotage: Calling Out Your Greatness
In the pursuit of our goals and dreams, we often encounter a formidable adversary lurking within ourselves: self-sabotage.In its most subtle, sneaky form, self-sabotage will have us downplaying our gifts, undermining our own worth, and holding ourselves back from...

To feel connected, you must first feel safe.

Consider this – authentic connections thrive in an environment of safety. Without a sense of safety, true connection remains elusive. Communication plays a pivotal role in cultivating human connection – it’s the key to unlocking doors in every aspect of life.

Reflecting on my upbringing, where children were expected to be seen but not heard, I often felt silenced and insignificant. These early experiences influenced my communication style, instilling a fear of expressing myself and a belief that my voice didn’t matter. I’m teaching you how to break the cycle and forge strong relationships without the fear…

read more

A Strong Sense of Self: How to Have It and Why You Need It…

Let’s explore the concept of self-esteem and the role it plays in our lives. Building confidence and a strong sense of self starts with self-awareness and self-compassion. In this blog post, Dr. Falisa speaks to young adults facing new challenges, lessons, and chapters in their lives. Dive into practical techniques for increasing that confidence, finding clarity on what YOU want, and how to create a clear path to achieve it. If life is what we make it, we better have the right tools to make it good!

read more

Unwrap the Joy: Your Guide to Stress-Free Holidays with Mindfulness and Self-Care

The holidays often bring a mix of joy and stress. This year, let’s make a shift. Prioritizing self-care and mindfulness can transform the season into a time of serenity. From embracing moments of self-indulgence to practicing mindfulness techniques, discover how to navigate the holiday buzz with ease. This blog post and its resources will help you in finding balance amidst the festivities. Unwrap the joy of the season by prioritizing your well-being!

read more